So let’s talk about this for a moment
If you are looking for professional guidance about how to talk on stage you can always use the sessions of Ted talks where master speakers and presenters showcase their skills of talking to an audience. These experts not only have good knowledge about the topics they also have a very good way of presenting their topic.
Intention to talk, chat, and meet new people online
The first rule of having a good talk is to understand the intention of the conversation. This the most important part of communication that we generally forget. The best conversationalists say that if you are talking to someone always layout the intent of the conversation.
This helps eradicate the awkward pauses and unwanted ‘ummmm’s,.For example, when you are going to an event or meeting new people, you need to ask yourself about what you need from this event? And what do you have to bring to the table? Are you there to get business or are you there to meet a girl? Or are you there to just have a good time?
Just setting that minor intention when you are in your car on your way to the event guides you when you talk to someone. You will realize that you need that sort of guiding drive when you are deciding what to talk about with a girl and to know what to talk about to ask her next. (more…)